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Originally Posted by BlackPup
I think we worry about what other people think about what we say or do more than other people think about us. Most of the time other people are too busy worrying about their own problems rather than our actions. Still it is good to apologise when we have hurt someone... the others make good suggestions. Try to go easy on yourself and don't beat yourself up over things you can't change.
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That's true. So true. To the poster, you have to get out of this mentality of worrying about what other people think. I totally understand that you have your appologies. I get it. But don't let it get to the point where you are loosing sleep over it, stressing yourself more than what you already are. I had to get my mind out of the mindframe because it was driving me insane. That constant worrying about what people thought, worrying about if they like me or not, worrying about this and that. What you did, is what you did. It's done and over with. Only thing you can do is appoligize and try to make peace. Wipe your hands clean after that. Move on and don't stay stuck on beating yourself up over something you can't help.
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