So, I got over one hurdle.. finally telling him that it has happend to me. However, I just couldn't really say more than that. Did not in any way get into details. I keep on referring to it as the "incident." T was trying to define it a little more.. Was it CSA, was it the R word.. and I just couldn't do it. A lot of it has to do with the fact that I have a very hard time talking about those kinds of things with males. Besides my husband, I do feel comfortable talking about anything sexual in nature. I know, that in this context it is different theraputic. However, I don't know if I can get pass the fact that he is a male and if I will be able to open up to him about it.

It is hard b/c I in no way have any desire to leave and find a woman T.. but, I don't know if I will be open with him as well. Tell me somebody has gotten past this issue?? Any advice??