Hi Healed84,
I don't find it easy to say the words to my female t, so I can't imagine it being tougher to tell a male t. I have to write everything down that I share, and can't elaborate on it when she asks. Maybe one day.
My advice is if you like your t, maybe you should stick with him and progress at a pace that you can. As you get more comfortable, you probably will be able to verbalize more details.
Bluemountains