SO posting when I'm up or down (not attack mode) I't makes me feel better when at 2 in the morning u reflect on your day and see what an a.. You've been and what u called/ told u'r husband or child. It was horrifying at first when I realised what I actually said to my 4 year old and how I behaved and then because I felt guilty I would comfort her, no wonder she is confused and has starting biting her nails ( I am better now and her behaviour has improved ) the nail bite thing stills continues - any advice????