My first T/old T was a woman and it was hard telling her but if she were a man (I purposely sought out a female T) I don't know if I could ever say 'it'.

I'm now looking for a new T and have an appointment tomorrow with a woman. After that I may have to go to a male T for trauma (there aren't a ton of T's to chose from in my town). While that scares the hell out of me I think I would grow and possibly be stronger for it.

Keep us posted on how things go for you!