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Originally Posted by hankster
I am all for openness and carp like that. I would advise against doing this. I looked at one letter from a T in my file as I was turning it over to my lawyer. It said something about how these people just get worse and worse and are not likely to get better. Which i'm thinking, hey he "just" wrote that for my case. But it still stung. I saw him a couple of years later and I was like, hey, how could you write all those mean things about me? He goes, WHAT mean things?! Apparently my optimism is entirely unfounded. I'm glad my current T supports my hopeful delusions.
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Well I am glad she too said no, in hindsight. I never thought of it the way you put it. I would like to think it wouldn't bother me as I would consider the source. Although deep down I know it would.
However I am happy to report my new T... Forever forward to be known as T ... Called xT, hopefully to rarely be mentioned ... Yet rightfully named therapist a call. Then T said he had an opening at 3 and we had an awesome session. He said to keep my appt for tomorrow only one hour earlier...yes! I followed it up by leaving a message on xT's answering machine. Thanking her for speaking to T and that I believed it helped me. That the offered summary she was willing to prepare for T is no longer necessary and I will not be bothering her again. .....then in true form, I emailed him telling him I emailed her and that I hope he was honest abut her truly not hating me..... And hear I sit... I can't wait to finish processing this with T...it's awesome to rehash things that were said or occurred with xT and actually see what was wrong, not who but what. Sorry this is so long and thank you all for all your support. Dr. J... That's what I call T, I think this is what therapy was supposed to be like for me all along.
