You know what? I know what you are saying and I have a male therapist and YES, YES, YES, it was so hard for me to talk about my CSA. I started by just broaching on the subject and even pretended I was thinking about members here that experienced that. And so he talked about CSA and what happens and how children don't understand and he was great. And I got to slip myself into the mix without feeling bad because of the way he talked about it. I am SO GLAD I got over that hurdle, yes I know what you mean. And the way he talks about it, it isn't so hard anymore I am getting better at it. And this week I talked about something I HAVE NEVER TOLD ANYONE, and he knew it was hard for me and HE WAS SO KIND AND GOOD ABOUT IT, NO SHAME, IT WAS GOOD TO GET IT OUT! And I NEVER thought I would EVER be able to talk about this CSA.
So please keep trying because I feel so much better that I can work on it FINALLY!!!
(((Hugs)))
Open Eyes
Last edited by Open Eyes; Apr 04, 2012 at 08:48 PM.
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