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Originally Posted by Jaybird57
Lucky for me, my therapist hasn't seen this as a "boundary issue" for me. She has allowed me to email "at will" for as long as I've seen her (2 1/2 years on and off). I've never been bothered by her answering or not answering . .. But to be honest, she has been fine about responding to any and all emails I've sent .. .There have been a few that she hasn't responded to and I haven't been in the least bothered by that. If I wanted to discuss it, I took it to our next session. I admit that I am a person who "thinks" much better through the written words. I can articulate "thoughts" very easily through the spoken word, but when it comes to deep thinking or feelings, I do much better through journaling or email. But that's just me. The fact that she is so receptive to me being able to email has meant a lot to me when I think about moving productively in therapy. . . But then I also know that what makes this world go around so perfectly is that we are all so very different and work so well with such different therapists!
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JB- It isn't a boundary issue for my t either. I'm so thankful for that. I'm similar is doing much better at deeper stuff thru writing. So much gets communicated that way that would otherwise be missed. Today's whole session for instance....BJ
Chopin - It seems like your t (and mine) can use healthy mothering or parenting ways with us as needed without being a stand in or replacement parent figure. -BJ