Trust your gut!!!!! Not your brain or any others but your gut. You know! I sence it in what you write that you know. Yes, many things needing to be done is soooo very uncomfortable for what would others think? What about the child?
I pray that if I come up on same or similar sittuation someone can tell me the same. It is hard face to face with sittuation. Expecially when have sig. other telling different. Soooo understand.
mlyn