Granite, she does not hate you but she did really trigger you. The chair being moved, the feeling like you were put in the corner, etc... IMO your T. probably doesn't even realize the chair being moved is an issue. Could you talk about how it makes you feel? Could you talk about it triggering feelings from the past? It would be so wonderful for you if you could talk about those feelings of how all the things the mother did to you made you feel while you were feeling those feelings... It could lead to so much healing. It could help you see that your T is not the mother and you are no longer a little girl ...

but right now I'm going to send lots of hugs sincei know you feel hurt right now..