Has she seen your corner drawings? Does she know what being in the corner means to you? Even so, you should remind her. I have to move my chair away from the bookcase every time I come in. I don't CARE if he just adjusted it, or if it doesn't leave him enough room for his footrest. I like to sit slanty and lean back. BUT I have 2 more years with my T than you have with yours. I would not have touched my chair 2 years ago. Except for the time I started laughing so hard I bounced myself over backwards in it like Humpty Dumpty. Then ever after I DID make sure it was leaning against the bookcase. But that was a different chair. Do you have to visit the grandmother this weekend?