Talked to a t-doc whom I see from time to time. He liked the idea of Minneapolis. He thought that the sheer geographic distance would be mean that I would be out of a possibility of mischief vis-a-vis my former family, and would start building my own life. We did not discuss disability though. But this supportive doctor whom I have now - she became supportive on the second visit; I can get this support in another city, too. Perhaps not on the second visit, but the fourth.