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Old Apr 04, 2012, 10:09 PM
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My personal opinion is that YOUR WIFE IS RIGHT, YOU NEED TO GET " YOU" FIGURED OUT BEFORE YOU DRAG "HER" INTO A HURT SHE NEVER DESERVED YET AGAIN.

Going back to my wife because of 20 years of loyalty, because 18 years ago I stood in that church and made those vows, because there is still some small remnant of love between us. I agree that my wife is right and I need to get myself straightened out before I can try to work on our marriage. Enough people have already been hurt in this business. What I'm trying to do is figure out how to get past my hurt and grief without hurting anyone else. This problem is mine to solve, not one to get dumped in anyone else's lap. Eventually I want to be able to be with my wife without her wondering if I'm really thinking about my lover. This is going to time a lot of time, effort, and professional help to get past.