Just an update for all who were kind enough to share their opinions with me. I actually DID write the email, sharing quite a bit, and not easy to write, or for her to read. We met - and had a productive session. Since then she has been kinder, and warmer - and I've been a more patient, willing client as a result. It actually all worked out for the best, and some real work is being done. Who'da thunk it? But I had to at least get my feelings heard. She listened patiently, and took it very, very professionally. I learned alot from it, too. So - believe it or not - it worked out for the best!