I mean my father does nothing but yell and swear. As usual I feel like the only adult in the situation. Yet none of us are allowed to verbally abuse him. I utterly can't stand his double standards.

E.g Screamed in my face when I stayed out and didn't come back. Fast forward last week my parents had a fight. He left and didn't say where he was going at all. Yet nothing was even said to him when he got back.

E.g Tells me that no one leaves home at my age. But I can prove him wrong. Even though all my cousins already have aswell. Then brags about his new recruit at work who is a year younger than me and is already married with a kid. Yet he always told me never to settle down young, but never explained why.

Talking to mum NEVER works. She sides with him no matter what. She even makes us apologize when he lies.

I wanted to talk to extended family, but we only see them at christmas. And last year there was a huge storm and everywhere got flooded. So we didn't go.