Do you not talk at all in group or is it just that you have things you don't want to talk about and the group is mad that you won't talk about those specific things? If so, how do they even know there are other things you should be talking about? (Please forgive my ignorance of how group works- I've never been in one)

Aren't you allowed to have your own private thoughts in this group and shouldn't they be respectful of them???