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Originally Posted by VenusHalley
What is the problem you have with the chair in corner?
Because... if I can speak for me, having space behind my back makes me edgy. So i can see why somebody would move it to the place where it is, to feel safe. Not to be in the view upon somebody entering the door and feel "protected" and not exposed.
Obviously for you the assotiation is the opposite. But your T cannot know unless you tell her.
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i absolutely associate being pushed away or put in a corner by someone as them being angry at me, or wanting to hurt me, or punish me, humiliate me,or any one of a million horrible things that go through my mind.in my home the corner was not necessarily used as punishment (but sometimes).but as a means to keep me out of the mothers hair.it was always "go get in that damn corner and stay there until i am ready to deal with you.i would spend a lot of time there
.it is the fact that T is putting me there and i cant figure out what i did why does she need this space.i wasn't rude,mean,disrespectful or anything that i can remember.i just feels horrible