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Originally Posted by granite1
i absolutely associate being pushed away or put in a corner by someone as them being angry at me, or wanting to hurt me, or punish me, humiliate me,or any one of a million horrible things that go through my mind.
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Can you see the feelings ^ from the past that were triggered up by that chair in the corner?
Can you see how you could have assigned these things to your T when they were coming from you being triggered?
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Originally Posted by granite1
it is the fact that T is putting me there and i cant figure out what i did why does she need this space.i wasn't rude,mean,disrespectful or anything that i can remember.i just feels horrible
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Can you see how you are fitting T into your past here and assigning things to her that might not belong to her?