stopdog always my compassionate(ya i said it and went there) voice of reason you are right it is an awful lot of energy spent and i am exhausted by it along with other things in my head.as i see it i have choices.
if the chair is there next week i can.....
1 quit walk out
2 learn to love the corner or pretend and ignore reality(what i kind of have been doing)not working so well for me
3 figure out a way to be able to communicate this to her and not get so upset that i loose my words(the one i want to choose)