MKAC you won the prize! Exactly right! I used to be really heavy my entire life until a year ago. And I wonder what she's grappling with in her life (hence the extra weight) and how she can help me if my perceptions are that I'm looking at the 'old me' (hope that makes sense). I know it sounds really shallow. I'm not looking at this from the perspective of 'who's the prettiest/most attractive T' It's more about me projecting.