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Originally Posted by geez
MKAC you won the prize! Exactly right! I used to be really heavy my entire life until a year ago. And I wonder what she's grappling with in her life (hence the extra weight) and how she can help me if my perceptions are that I'm looking at the 'old me' (hope that makes sense). I know it sounds really shallow. I'm not looking at this from the perspective of 'who's the prettiest/most attractive T' It's more about me projecting.
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geez, I have an issue with really heavy women as well, mostly as a result of my mother's weight. I have a particular horror of obese women without bras and with greasy, straggly hair. I have spoken to my T about it even, because I can sometimes be really vicious (inside my head anyway). He basically just said, yeah, she reminded you of your mother. He seems to think that because I am not cruel out loud, and/or don't have issues with heavy people who do NOT remind me of my mother, we don't really need to talk about that issue.
Don't know how helpful I am. I couldn't have a woman therapist at all, so I guess I'm even more prejudiced than you.