Hi,

I am trying to help my 13 yr daughter. She was diagnosised with ADHD a few years ago, but the medication and counseling nothing help her behavior just kept getting more defiant and more risky. At 12.....she was having sex, sneaking out at night, had over 3000 facebook friends (a lot of men she didnt know), drinking, drugs, abusive to me and her sister, stealing...I called her fiesty and loving (and she is the most loving and caring person you will ever meet at times), but watching her scared me. She is now in a residential program, saying she is fine nothing needs to change. Her counselor has finally noted that ADHD may not be all of her issues. I have been looking and honestly everything I have read about Histrionic Personality disorder screams her name. This is why I am here, her behavior is really scary for a 13 yr old...the last time she was home she tried to sneak out in the middle of the night to meet a 18 yr old she met on facebook . Is there a way I can help her? or do I need to sit back and just support her?