Yeah, i'm jUst getting paranoid because of what's been going on with kacey. The contrast between granite's T last week, when she said she was going to show her compassion, and this week, when, by granite's account, she was late and not forthcoming about about the reason, then left the room again - wtf? it seems manipulative. unless it was granite's expectations skewing her perceptions - but she didn't PERCEIVE T being late, T actually WAS late. I understand not wanting to start over, but there is also "not throwing good money after bad." and I wasn't SAYING starting over from scratch. But maybe this T isn't seeing everything that's going on. Maybe her boundaries about writing aren't working. Maybe a consult can open up some options, is all I'm saying. Cos i'm not diagnosing, but if granite did dissociate at the beginning of this session, how could the T have handled it differently, and why didn't she?