I think swinging is harmful to some and not to others. Only you can determine that. Some women are pressured by their SO's to engage in this activity. It becomes more of a performance than something enjoyable. If that's the case, well...doesn't sound too healthy to me.

But if it's something you WANT to do, and you feel comfortable with how you will feel the next day - then, heck - it's a free world. Just make sure you are going to feel ok later. Later never goes away, ya know? I would hate for you to live with an avoidable regret.

Do it only if it feels like a healthy, enjoyable activity which is for YOU, not for him. Take care of you.

emmy