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Old Apr 05, 2012, 02:58 PM
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My husband is bald and fat (and has been all the time I've known him; almost 30 years) and I'm his second wife. But he does not dislike many people he has met and doesn't lump them together as all contrived and phony; I'd think that attitude or perception alone would limit the number of people who would want to get to know you better.

If you do not want to get to know anyone else and don't care yourself, hygiene does not matter that much? It could get ugly in that you get sick from not caring for yourself but, if you like how you live, I would not seek to change that?

To me, it sounds like you are depressed. I have not heard anything yet that would make me decide you might not be someone I'd want to get to know, just that you might be harder to approach than I would choose to do the work for, just as bad hygiene implies to me that you don't choose to do enough work so you make it easier for others to approach physically.
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