wow, you sound like me and my husband sometimes! When i'm having a rough day and I need his support and attention he's too busy working on his car (mustang=obsession) and talking to his friends. All I ever want from him at those times is for him to show me extra attention and love on me, not too much to ask for Anywho, I know how ya feel Chihuahua, maybe you can lock him in the basement with the kids and take a bubble bath