I won't say what I would do because what I would do is totally pathalogical. No joke there. I am glad you are moving out though. He is not being fair to you.

On the sex with friends. I find this odd. My husband has expressed to me many times that sex is not just sex but something shared between people who love each other. This concept is difficult for me because of my sexual history. I just have to take his word for it.
Zen

<font color=blue>that I would be good even if I did nothing, that I would be good even if I got the thumbs down, that I would be good if I got and stayed sick, that I would be good even if I gained 10 pounds-- Alanis Morissette