(((Seretonin))) the real friends you want will love you for you and not your looks. Also, most people are way to self critical. I personally never wanted a man to look like he walked off the cover of a Harlequinn Romance novel . Those men are fake. Real men are sexy. My bfriend is balding and tends to get a beer belly and is fuzzy all over like a caterpillar. His first wife always wanted him to wax all that wonderful fur. I loooove it. I love animals. I can pet him. And i lie my head on his belly like a pillow and try to get us more active and feed us more fruits and veggies because i want him to live a long long time. I know he is not my pet lol. It sounds like it here but if you met us you would know that. If you were in the the springs he would probably eat sausages with you. I dont usually eat pork, but i confess i ate one the other day. Hugs to you.