Thanks for your post Dexter

I have attempted to set boundries and disapline them I recieve foul remarks of " your not my parent or gaurdian so I dont have to do anything you say. " I have protested and not did some cleaning chores and I honestly think it bothers me more than them. I am not sure what counceling is avail for my income in this rural area. he has offered to " pencil me in to talk on saturday " ... nice, as if it would an imposition his children are going to thier mothers for spring break . I dont know if it to discuss me moving out and what belongings I am to take .. when I did mention I was considering it 3 months back.. he only responded with what are you going to take ? .. its just STUFF man .. it can eventually be relplaced .. I had to remind him that I am not like his ex wife and when I seperated from my ex husband I left him everything .. dont think i would change now and get materialistic
now, I just avoid being here as much as possible . I have joined a health club in the evenings and going to start college in the summer semester. its sad when you look forward to work instead of the weekends...
anyway, thank you for your reply
Still on the fence ...........