Nighsky, this thought just came to mind... maybe things in your relationship with your T. don't have to "go back" to how they were... maybe they could be different... maybe they could even be better... once you are able to work through this issue...

I think that is possible... I know that you work very hard and it always sounds like your T. is always working hard with you. Will you be going back on a consistant basis to work through this?