You'd be surprised at the number of people you think are attractive who totally hate the way they look. And others are not "all that" and they come off as movie stars in their personality. I like crooked teeth on women. I'd be irked if Jewel the singer got braces. And many women think big noses give character. I don't know anyone who likes a little button nose. When you lose weight, it comes off the face first. But only a good diet and some exercise can fix that. And many women think a bald head is cute. So don't assume what other people find attractive. Lastly, just as many people like dry, sardonic humor as do stupid toilet jokes... if not more. It's way more interesting.