When the subject of self esteem and looks come up, I often talk about JR Martinez. He was badly burned by a bomb blast as a U.S soldier in Iraq. After rehabilitating, guess where he ended up - with a major role on a Soap Opera and on dancing with the stars. When I see him, I think he's still handsome IMO ...even with the scars, no ear and no hair. He has this vibrant personality, big brown eyes and an infectious smile. So yes good looks comes in all forms and inner spirit is important. Here's his picture: