I just wanted to update something from last night. We don't argue much, but we did get into it a bit (thankfully) - and eventually he used the words "not compatible". It was about our differences, and there are some. But most of what he listed last night were perceived differences, stuff he thought that bothered me that really didn't. Friends he thought I was bothered by (female) that I wasn't. It hurts me a lot that he just stopped talking to some friends and such because of me, when for the most part it wasn't a problem. He had said something earlier this year about me not wanting him to go to xx place (about a 5 hour drive) and it was like "we never even discussed it!" If we could continue like this - talking - it would help a lot. I don't know if we will, he isn't too good about talking seriously on a continuous basis.