Insisting that others accept a certain "care" for their own good or becuase it is "in their best interest". I don't understand what you find outlandish. In my defense of clients, some of the most dangerous people against them were their social workers, therapists and mds. Mostly because in their notion of acaring they thought they got to decide what is best for another adult and sought to impose it. It always surprised me how very angry having to follow the law made the mds in the cases I had with them.