I'm sorry you feel that way. A healthy relationship definitely includes respect. If people don't respect eachother -- be it a friendship, relationship, or whatever, it's very hard to make things work and it may even get worse before it gets better. My boyfriend & I have been together for almost 4 years and at one point it was very, very bad. There was NO type of respect. I seen him speak to strangers with more respect then he spoke to me with. But we had a long, long talk about respect. We agreed that in order for it to work, we need to treat eachother better. Try and get some time to really sit down with him and talk, without yelling...just talk. Let him know how you feel and that you need to be spoken to with respect. It's not the end but if he keeps treating you like that, you need to do what's best for you. Keep your head up and be strong! You're not alone.