Hi all, have not had hubby diagnosed, BUT....He left this weekend and went to a different state " to see if it was where he wants to go" feels like this is his "Big Window" and feels that it will make everything right in his life...

A little background...
He had not spoken to his mother for 10 she died in 2005 left him the executor of her estate.

2005 they find out he has diabetes

we went through another "window of opportunity" only this time I went with him that same year 2007 his dad dies, we build a house we move to another state.

In 2008-2009 two of his cats die

2009 his sister dies

december of that year I leave, he is treating me like crap and I can't do anything right...or make enough money

April 2010 we reconcile and get back together

2010 my daughter his step daughter passes away in a car accident..

He has never gone to grief counseling OR psychologist, tells me things then twists them to suit his needs....

he shops for weird stuff has run up his cc cards 1. has $10,000 2. has $9,980 3. has $3000.00....

we own a house in one state we rent a townhouse in another...

both our names are on the house $1205.00 per month and on the rent here $823.00 per month...

I found out that he applied for an apt and looks like he accepted a job in another state.....

NONE OF THIS MAKES SENSE!!! and I think that he will get rejected for this rental he just applied for today....

we also have 4 cats, he plans on only taking 1...he considers these cats to be his kids (we didnt have any together)

In july we will be married 12 years....he has had one of his cats for 13 years, he is going to leave her and the others????

we have moved almost EVERY TWO YEARS he is 42 and since moving here with me he has had two jobs in a year and a half...

his mother had bipolar, and brother ADHD and depression.......

I dont feel like I can breathe......

Thanks for any and all advice!!!