Some people play games to fill a void. You are right to feel disregarded, but seem to lack self-esteem. A confident woman, who felt the guy was missing out, would not wait nearly that long to move on. Take care of you. Sure, there will be compromises in relationships when it comes to understanding and accepting personalities, but this is at the very beginning when first impressions mean a lot. I would not light a candle in the window for someone like this person.