I don't think it hurts everyone, but for me, I wouldn't have the guts to try it even if it were offered to me on a silver platter by my wife. Somehow the risk in hurting the one I love could never be worth the pleasure.

I look at my vows and think "Well, they have got to stand for something . . ." So, I guess so tantalizing a fantasy will stay just that: a fantasy. The whole love and cherish part doesn't sound right with the word "swing."

I don't know. I'll have to think on this. I'm fairly certain that if I were asked by wife to do this, I would fight my biological urges (kicking and screaming) and decline.