Hi gang!

This post turns out rather different from what I intended when I started.

I look at stuff I wrote four months ago and I think, "How could I possibly have felt like that?"

For instance, just before Christmas I was obsessed with the fact that I didn't know much about my T. But it doesn't bother me at all today. If she wants to remain a mystery, I'm cool with that.

Have I really grown so much in four months? How can that be? I mean, my T was away for at over half that time.

Could it be that absences are beneficial? Instead of seeing my T regularly throughout the year, would it be better to have a pattern of month on, month off? Should therapy be episodic rather than continuous?

Has anyone tried that?