hmm. I think you grow from surviving the breaks. I told T this week that I was surprised, when I first moved back after my stint at mother's, at how DEPENDABLE the buses were. They actually did show up every day, and they NEVER change the schedule! You can RELY on them! This was a completely new feeling for me. I told him I felt more comforted by the bus showing up every day than by him showing up every day. I probably need to talk about why i'm more connected to the bus than to T. Anyway, idk about every other month. it would be like exercising every other month, or working. How could you make any progress, accomplish anything in that short of time? Maybe 6 weeks on, 2 off, or 10/12?