I'm not young I am 36 and he is 30. His mother is his caretaker. He and I had an amazing love and its worth the fight. I don't want to neglect someone because they are having an episode. I guess all I can do is give up but I was just trying to be supportive. Some how he is blaming me for this spiral and sees me as a threat and possible trigger and he doesn't trust me and I've done nothing wrong so I'm trying to prove this.