not to confirm - to fix what's broken, to fill in what's missing, to spackle the dented parts so you don't fall again. so the same stupid stuff doesn't come out of your mouth again that messes up your chances with the types you want to be with. if you can get all that stupid embarrassing stuff out with T, you'll be less susceptible to what happened last year. what do you think happens in therapy? you have great iq, maybe not so great eq? were you the apple of mummy's eye or not so much?