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You have to define your own values and find your own happiness. Once you know what they are, violating them will cause emotional distress. So, to answer your question . . . swinging will be mentally harmful if it violates your values and interferes with you obtaining true, long-lasting happiness.

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What if my values and enjoying it are differant? I don't know if I am in doubt because it's socially wrong or because I think it's wrong. Thats one thing I can't figure out. Just because I enjoyed it doesn't make it right. Right? Would that make it one of my values if I liked it, or the society part of it? Do you understand what I am talking about? I guess what I mean is am I under conviction because society says it's wrong or is it crossing over one of my bounderies?