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Apr 08, 2012, 03:30 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I don't think I'd call you a "compulsive liar" because you tell these so-called "fibs" in order to keep peace. I think we all do that at times. No one wants to get involved in drama or confrontations. I avoid them at ALL COSTS!  So if that means I'm a compulsive liar, so be it. 
Narcissist? I'm not sure you know the complete meaning of the word. A narcissism is self-love; excessive interest in one's own appearance, comfort, importance & abilities, etc. From the way you talk it doesn't appear that that's YOU. 
As for the girl, why do you have to tell her about having a relationship? Why not just let things happen? Perhaps like when you're together somewhere, just take her hand when you're walking and hold hands? At least she'll know how you feel -- perhaps she feels the same? You'll never know unless you try. And it doesn't mean you're asking her to marry you. LOL
Life is a gamble. You have to take risks in everything you do. If you don't you'll never get anywhere. So jump in with both feet -- it can be exciting! 
I wish you the best!! Let us know what happen, ok? God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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