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Old Apr 08, 2012, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
I always concentrate on things I am good at. That makes me a natural specialist. But it also means that there are big holes in my portfolio, and EQ was one of them.
It's good to challenge yourself with things you're not so good at ..... for example, I'm good at running a long time, but I'm not so good at sprinting/doing speed work. I hate it, as a matter of fact. But if I work on it, it will help me improve as a runner, become faster over longer periods of time, better pace ... and improve my fitness. (If I had my choice, though, I'd rather just lift weights, but then I wouldn't be aerobically fit at all, really, and what good is having big, strong muscles and not having any aerobic fitness? No balance....)
So...I've spent my life being a good intellectual-izer and being good at getting insight...about time I got better at actually dealing with and feeling and handling my emotions and putting some things into practical application in my mind/heart/life.
And I've spent my life being happy to be more solitary and introverted, thinking from within ...... so about time I learn more about reaching out, looking outward, doing more than what I used to think was necessary to have deeper, richer connections and relationships.
It's all about as fun as sprinting on a stupid track sometimes, and I'd rather just follow the usual groove in my brain....but some new grooves would be cool, too.
I want fewer holes in my portfolio, I guess.
Thanks for this!
tkdgirl