I often clam up in T- even after we've discussed in a rational way what I need to be doing in T when I'm there. It's frustrating as all heck for me! There is just this part of me that can't speak. I'll open my mouth to say something, but the words won't form or come rolling out. I pretty sure for me it has to do with being vulnerable about the subject. BUT...... I'm working on it and T says I'm doing better than I was.

I think all T cares about is that we attempt to answer their questions. I'm pretty sure that at some point, we'll overcome those barriers and they won't be able to shut us up!!!