Stopdog, there is so much I can't remember as well... and when I told of the abuse my T has asked me if I'm done "reporting" about the incident... (he isn't being mean when he says that)... he's trying to help me see the difference of telling the facts of the incident and telling it as if it happened to me and how I felt about it... So that is why my T thought I needed to keep talking about it... not necessarily all in one session but why we would need to revisit..

He explained it to me once when I had gone to a wedding... we talked about it and I "reported" about the wedding but I talked about how I felt watching them get married... how hearing wedding vows spoken had made me think back to my wedding day and how it felt to be so happy for the people and all of those feelings that went into being there... and he said that is what he thinks I need to talk about... how I felt and what I may have been thinking at the time...

But it is certainly okay to say I can't remember when you don't...