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Apr 09, 2012, 11:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You're in a tough situation. Are you in college or are you still in high school? I don't know how the educational system works there, so I'm not sure. 
I agree that your family is toxic. It does seem that there is abuse going on! Obviously if you moved out, your schooling wouldn't be paid for anymore, and that would be a BIG problem.  And I understand your anxiety, because after living in an environment like that it would be almost "normal" to suffer from anxiety! Can you talk to the counselors at school? Many times they are very helpful and are more than willing to speak with you. Give that a try for starters.
When you're at home, try to avoid your parents as much as possible. I know it's not easy, but that's about the only way you're going to "get along" with them. Try your hardest not to "sass" them or back-talk. Be as agreeable as you can --- yes, that's difficult at times but you need to be respectful. Everyone should be respectful of their parents even if they don't agree with them.  I NEVER back=talked my parents -- I didn't DARE. I guess kids are different these days, cause kids are much more sassy than they used to be.
I know it's hard for you -- but you won't always be living at home. It won't be long, and you'll be out of school and on your own. So just do your best -- and God bless. Keep us posted on how you're doing, ok? Hugs, Lee
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