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Old Jun 02, 2006, 09:22 PM
Anonymous29319
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After sending lots of emails and making lots of phone calls the conscensus was unanimous - When an abuse situation happened and there were no pieces of memories already stored containing that memory of that abuse situation it is stored as new piece of unconscious memory.

One professional used example of a person dissociating because of being molested. They already have that memory piece stored. But if the situation involved r$%^ and there was no memory already there to match with the R$%^ act so that part of the abuse situation that has no match - the R#$% experience - broken down into the five senses and emotions - will be stored as a new pieces of unconscious memories.

For each abuse situation it is broken down into the five senses and emotions and matched with a memory that is already stored if that part of the memory doesn't have a match it is stored as a new memory and used as a match for future situations that contain the same information.

Another professional who knows I use lego's sometimes said its like having a set of legos that are whilte squares. . all the white squares get stacked together and then one day a white rectangle comes along and then you are matching squares with squares and rectanlges with rectangles and they just keep building upwards then one dat blue square comes along and it is set aside because it does not match the white squares and white rectangles but its there for more blue squares when and if they come along and soon you have wite rectangles and squares and blue rectangles and squares and one day red comes along ...

You end up with hundreds of lego's (memories) of a variety of shapes and colors (situations, sights, smells, tastes, sounds, textures, how we were touched and emotions experienced) all in one package (our brains).