Yes. She does! I don't know why she does after 12 years but she does. It's really, really hard on her. That is what I was trying to tell the original poster. It's really hard on me too... watching the hurt my wife goes through. It's like my heart breaks every time my mood... or should I say my mind... shifts. The closeness Karen needs is different if not gone and she feels alone. It's all so stupid! Ugh! enough about that. Thank you irreplaceable... I really do hope, very soon, you find real love with someone who will stay and not change their mind.